I could have gone for a much younger man, and had the chance to, but would not be comfortable with one younger than 40. Most older women who still like sex, fare much better with a younger doctor prescribed a MILD estrogen/progesterone for me (i am in the "best of BOTH worlds) ... i had 'good sex' when i was married (20 yrs) and better sex when i had my long-term b/f....
Older men have more of a problem keeping up sexually than older women. i have always been a sensual, must have it kinda gal...
Their ages range from a newborn to the elderly and everything in between.
Not wanting to go younger than that, it's taken me awhile to find one (50 ) who can keep up with me.
I see no reason why a woman of any age cannot enjoy sex, as long as they are healthy and able.
I believe sex is something that one contiues to learn well into their senior years.
Whereas males might drop away in frequency, this should be offset with an improved technique such as oral capanilities.
I tink older women can be far mroe sexy than their younger counterpparts both in performance and looks. Sweety if you think we can't keep up then you've been with the wrong men. And regardless of my hormonal condition, I can still be into intimacy with my man if I am into my man (which I am wholeheartedly and it's friggin great).
Odd tho I always thought it was the over 40 and 50 woman who couldn't keep up with me. I'm 45, and lost my drive during the last several years of my marriage. But have since found that the removal of my piece of crap husband worked miracles for my sex drive. The following is a response I had posted with a similar thread content As I am over 40...
In addition, it helps if she has an understanding partner who is willing to give her a little time to adjust to the problems.
A lot of the problem can be alleviated with non-medicinal methods. I will tell you that I'm post-menopausal and I have absolutely NO problem with sex.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate. Its also hard to find parents of younger women in 20's to 30's who are going to approve of the guy who is 20 years older. I haven't experienced it myself, but why not have lovers in their 40s or 50s or more?