This condition occurs with whoever I am having a conversation with, i.e., men, women, young, old, work colleagues friends and relatives.
Chasers can be any body type—from skinny to muscular to somewhat pudgy themselves.Whenever a chubby guy is also a chaser, he’s typically called a chub for chub (or chub4chub in internet speak).All galleries and links are provided by 3rd parties. We have no control over the content of these pages. Funny how that sounds like what most straight people said about gay people not too long ago! No, they wouldn’t be happier dating someone they aren’t attracted to.
There is nothing wrong with a guy who prefers his men chunky, just like there’s nothing wrong with a guy who likes skinny men, tall men or older men. Hmmm, interesting how defending guys who like chubby men sounds a lot like defending gay people in general ;) Take a note, mainstream gays! But seriously, liking thick, chunky or just plain fat men is a taste—just as being sexually attracted to twinky or muscle guys is a taste. If you don’t like big men and aren’t a big man yourself, then this site isn’t for you. Chasabl is a new concept for gay micro-communities—a hybrid social media and dating/personals site.It’s a legitimate fear for anyone, but not all guys who like someone’s body are disinterested in their mind. Some have fought long and hard to learn to love their bodies. Our hope is that someday every guy, regardless of his size or looks, can come to think of himself as sexy, attractive and worthy of love. And yet others are really only interested in hooking up and sex. The best way to find out is to use the search and filter criteria, read profiles carefully and when in doubt, ask! When you're part of a sub-community like chubs and chasers are, your interests straddle two wants: To be a part of this community and to find individual relationships within it.Sure, if you want to live a lonely life with little sexual and romantic fulfillment. The first want is best addressed with a more social approach and the second with a more traditional personals approach.I would like to know what the problem is and how it can be treated. In the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), in the chapter on Anxiety Disorders, there is a subcategory for “Social Phobia”.Social phobia essentially involves painful symptoms of anxiety that occur in relation to particular social events.Common forms of social phobia have to do with anxiety around dating, or anxiety around public speaking, but there are many people who qualify for the diagnosis with a more general report of anxiety in diverse social interactions.